For some people this might be a relationship of "moderation" (which can be quantified), or perhaps one where an association with Alcohol extends to specific times and places and not others. Some people may decide that there is no room for Alcohol in their home. Others may decide to cut all ties with Alcohol except the memory of why cutting these ties is so important.
These are decisions that will be dependant on your own history and hopes, values and commitments. They are personal decisions that take into account the knowledge and experience you have with Alcohol as well as the skills and support that you can bring into play in renegotiating a new relationship. All of these questions and answers can be explored and drawn out in conversation with a skilled counsellor or therapist.
So what kind of relationship with Alcohol do YOU want to have?