A friend's niece epitomized this. Her niece invented certainty even though she knew that her plans would be forced to change. The creation of plans relieved her anxiety about uncertainty. We have to find ways to live with and embrace uncertainty. That is our next task.
I will be pursuing these topics further at Rowe Conference Center in northwestern Massachusetts, Sept. 16-18, 2011. For more details, she http://www.rowecenter.org. ; Also, Coyote Institute is sponsoring a Forgiveness workshop with Olivier Clerq of Cluny, France, in Brattleboro, Vermont, September 9-11, 2011. For more details see http://www.coyoteinstitute.us.